So here's the summary: I'm on tanglethorn and it's making me more capable of admitting to the shit I'm normally too embarrassed of. Not saying it's necessarily stuff we're gonna want to do right away, but giving you some info now seems better than hoping I'll be able to chill out long enough to tell you later. If you're interested.
All right, fair enough. Did you want to tell me now or meet up to talk in person? Either way works for me. I'm always happy to hear more about what revs your motor.
Now's good. In person I keep getting...distracted with staring at people.
[Imagining what he'd like to do to them and such. Tanglethorn is a hell of a drug, okay?]
I guess the most expedient term for what I'm thinking of is dick spanking. Not very hard. Hand only, preferably sitting in your lap, that kind of thing. We're going for relatively low levels of hurting, both cause it's easy to hurt it bad and because it's a lot more...mm, raw? Emotionally, than an average sort of hurting. But that's a thing.
A little gentle CBT? [Right, Vax might not know the term.] Sorry, cock and ball torture. Doesn't have to be as drastic as it finds, your idea would work very well. I'd enjoy that, when you're in the right mood again.
Yes. I mean, like with everything you can probably work me up into more pain than you can start with. But it's never gonna be anything all that wild like I've heard of.
So, next thing. Remember how I was like, sure, we could do that maybe, when you brought up fisting? What I meant was I'm pretty sure I'd lose my mind and my thirst is extreme.
I find with CBT it's largely best not to push limits unless I'm playing with someone who just really, really wants me to. If you don't, that's no shame on you. I'm happy just spanking your dick.
[He chuckles.] Brilliant. I'll make sure my nails are trimmed next time we play, because I really want to see how you look with my fist up your ass.
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So here's the summary: I'm on tanglethorn and it's making me more capable of admitting to the shit I'm normally too embarrassed of. Not saying it's necessarily stuff we're gonna want to do right away, but giving you some info now seems better than hoping I'll be able to chill out long enough to tell you later. If you're interested.
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[Imagining what he'd like to do to them and such. Tanglethorn is a hell of a drug, okay?]
I guess the most expedient term for what I'm thinking of is dick spanking. Not very hard. Hand only, preferably sitting in your lap, that kind of thing. We're going for relatively low levels of hurting, both cause it's easy to hurt it bad and because it's a lot more...mm, raw? Emotionally, than an average sort of hurting. But that's a thing.
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So, next thing. Remember how I was like, sure, we could do that maybe, when you brought up fisting? What I meant was I'm pretty sure I'd lose my mind and my thirst is extreme.
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[He chuckles.] Brilliant. I'll make sure my nails are trimmed next time we play, because I really want to see how you look with my fist up your ass.
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Speaking of which I'm gonna take another change one sometime soon. Hopefully with less freaking out this time.
So, gags are a thing, but only if you like them, if that makes sense? I don't really love them, but I like it a lot if I'm doing it because I'm told.