I find with CBT it's largely best not to push limits unless I'm playing with someone who just really, really wants me to. If you don't, that's no shame on you. I'm happy just spanking your dick.
[He chuckles.] Brilliant. I'll make sure my nails are trimmed next time we play, because I really want to see how you look with my fist up your ass.
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[He chuckles.] Brilliant. I'll make sure my nails are trimmed next time we play, because I really want to see how you look with my fist up your ass.
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Speaking of which I'm gonna take another change one sometime soon. Hopefully with less freaking out this time.
So, gags are a thing, but only if you like them, if that makes sense? I don't really love them, but I like it a lot if I'm doing it because I'm told.