"Are you looking for just tips and tricks? It sounds like you've got a pretty good grasp of the basics. I can show you a few knots that the tie-ee can undo easily themselves if they need to. If you want techniques... well, we might have to wait until we've got Caleb."
Or another model, but he feels like Caleb will respond quite well to being the one he demonstrates and Matt practices on.
"That'd be great," Matt says, nodding appreciatively--and grinning when Daniel mentions Caleb. "I'd love to test some techniques out on Caleb. I will ask him if he's still down?"
Matt pauses.
And he peers down to his notes.
"I did have, uh, a more specific question? We talked about putting him in handcuffs for an extended period of time--like all day. Which is super hot in theory, but is it feasible?"
"It's certainly feasible, yeah. I've done it more than once. There are a few considerations - like, are you going to let him out for bathroom breaks? And some more specific advice I can give you if you want it." A lot of it is common sense, but he is fully aware that common sense isn't entirely common, especially when you're young and your enthusiasm races ahead of your ability to think clearly.
"But just to get it out there, my first piece of advice is to keep track of the damned keys."
Matt nods seriously at first, jotting down a couple phrases. Then he laughs, surprised--at first because, uh, no duh?? But after a beat, he realizes that's fucking good advice.
"Oh my God, yeah." He grins sheepishly, scrubbing a hand across his cheek (and smudging some ink on it in the process). "Especially if I'm not wearing, ah, something with pockets. Consistently."
Aka, if he's wearing nothing at all.
"Bathroom breaks sound like something I'd want to negotiate with Caleb. Meals too."
"Meals can be really fun if you decide to leave him cuffed for them. Feeding your partner is very intimate - just don't try spaghetti, or... soup, or something like that. Bite size finger food's probably the best." Lucky Matt, he gets the wisdom of thirty-five years of minor mishaps. Daniel notes him rubbing ink across his cheek (adorable), but he won't say anything about it for the moment.
"Anyway, I'd probably advise changing his arm position every couple of hours and checking on his circulation regularly. Being cuffed puts you a little bit off-balance, as well, so being close in case of a trip or a fall is a good idea - he won't be able to catch himself and faces are breakable."
Matt gets a dreamy sort of expression on his face as Daniel talks about feeding a partner--one that may imply he's entertained a few thought experiments on the subject. Still, he dutifully notes the suggestions down (no spaghetti, no soup, finger food bite-size), taking a sip of whiskey between each one.
"Faces are breakable," he notes ruefully. A few more notes--and another sip from his glass. "Okay, well, I'm glad to know this idea wasn't totally unworkable."
A crooked smile.
"I'll ask Caleb if he's still into it, of course. But it was a pretty appealing image."
Daniel hides a smile in his drink at Matt's expression. It's very sweet, and he's glad that Matt can understand the possibilities in it.
"Oh, it's definitely very appealing in real life, too. Having someone trust you that much, depend on you that much... it feels good. Besides, Caleb just looks incredible when he's tied up." He would usually skip openly admiring someone else's partner, but since Caleb's the one who sent Matt to him for kink advice he feels like it's permissible.
Matt doesn't seem at all put off--because he knows Caleb and Daniel hook up, or possibly because he's cherishing the hope that Caleb really will serve as their rope model. He nods.
"He really does."
Another, smaller smile. "Trust. Yeah. That's what it is. I don't--usually ask people to trust me, and I'm not sure how trusting I am myself, but ... it's nice."
More than nice. It's beautiful. But Matt's slightly shy about saying so.
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Or another model, but he feels like Caleb will respond quite well to being the one he demonstrates and Matt practices on.
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Matt pauses.
And he peers down to his notes.
"I did have, uh, a more specific question? We talked about putting him in handcuffs for an extended period of time--like all day. Which is super hot in theory, but is it feasible?"
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"But just to get it out there, my first piece of advice is to keep track of the damned keys."
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"Oh my God, yeah." He grins sheepishly, scrubbing a hand across his cheek (and smudging some ink on it in the process). "Especially if I'm not wearing, ah, something with pockets. Consistently."
Aka, if he's wearing nothing at all.
"Bathroom breaks sound like something I'd want to negotiate with Caleb. Meals too."
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"Anyway, I'd probably advise changing his arm position every couple of hours and checking on his circulation regularly. Being cuffed puts you a little bit off-balance, as well, so being close in case of a trip or a fall is a good idea - he won't be able to catch himself and faces are breakable."
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"Faces are breakable," he notes ruefully. A few more notes--and another sip from his glass. "Okay, well, I'm glad to know this idea wasn't totally unworkable."
A crooked smile.
"I'll ask Caleb if he's still into it, of course. But it was a pretty appealing image."
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"Oh, it's definitely very appealing in real life, too. Having someone trust you that much, depend on you that much... it feels good. Besides, Caleb just looks incredible when he's tied up." He would usually skip openly admiring someone else's partner, but since Caleb's the one who sent Matt to him for kink advice he feels like it's permissible.
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"He really does."
Another, smaller smile. "Trust. Yeah. That's what it is. I don't--usually ask people to trust me, and I'm not sure how trusting I am myself, but ... it's nice."
More than nice. It's beautiful. But Matt's slightly shy about saying so.